"A man is not finished when he is defeated. He is finished when he quits."

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Re-post of an early April, 2012 post:



-from April 3, 2012:

The basic concept of trading, in my opinion.



One thing that has become clear to me over the 13 months that I have been practicing this full time: The more obvious the price and direction to enter or exit, the more likely it will be used by the most traders. And any spot where the most traders act is the spot where the successful ten percent of traders will prey upon those other 90% (I use the 90% and 10% because that is the success fail rate that is quoted by a study done years ago). TNA in this screen shot is a perfect example of what I see every hour of every day.

You will see an orange mark on the long down candle at 2:00 when the market drooped after The Ben Bernank opened his mouth. You can verify that it was there on earlier charts. This was the spot where my "Impulse Buy" was. Where my emotions were telling me to jump in against trend. You'll also note that in the next candle, price retraced to that very spot beofre resuming its deep descent. That is no coincidence. That was price retesting the "sucker's level." Then you'll see where I clicked to buy my practice trade in the 2:10 candle. There's no doubt that there were many many real-money traders who acted on the same impulse at this level. I am not a professional trader and therefore, consider myself a novice. The price action in relation to this entry spot is an example of the point I am trying to express. It dropped enough to stop me out, plus a few pennies more. That is no coincidence, just as it is no coincidence when it has happened so often before (see my many references to it over the past couple weeks). I and many other novice traders who got in long at this pretty good price were punked and stopped out by the sharks who REALLY know what they are doing. They are not trading spots on a chart. They are "Trading the Trader," as Quint Tatro explained in his enlightening book of the same name. To continue, if you look at the sixth, seventh, and eighth candles (2:40, 2:45 2:50 respectively) after the one I entered, you will see stock price aligning with my entry price as a focal point of its consolidation, especially the 2:50 candle that makes a near doji within a penny or two. This is no coincidence. It is clear that the masses of real money traders and me, the novice practice-trader, got in at this level.
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All prices are a reflection of buying and selling, and buying and selling is a portrait of the intentional as well as emotion-driven impulses of the buyers and the sellers. And where the most people are compelled to act is where the other few people will exploit them...because human beings, like all the other animals that roam the earth, are creatures of habit and prone to be slaves to their basic emotions. Any habit can be gamed by the truly savvy and practiced few. They are the 10% who survive to become those who trade for a living.
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Successful trading means knowing human psychology and seeing how it is represented through the price action on the charts by studying a moving market, for months and years until your eyes bleed. This will lead to learning the patterns of the 10%,while trying to manage and master one's own natural emotions that compel one to act with the 90% majority. This art of trading is really gamesmanship.

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Therefore, it comes as no surprise that successful traders use psychologists, like Dr. Brett Steenbarger who left trading and blogging to work on staff at a major hedge fund. It is no surprise that successful traders learn to understand their own emotional makeup with tools such as yoga (Michael Martin, Steve Spencer, James Altucher), meditation (Michael Marcus, Scott Farnham aka Bankrobber), exercise (Mike Bellefiore), traditional religious faith and prayer (Quint Tatro, a Christian), hypnosis (Scott Farnham), writing trading thoughts and feelings on paper (Linda Bradford-Raschke). These people are but a few who used the various tools best known for focusing / centering the mind.

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Jack Schwager is the author of one of the best known books about succesful traders and the exploration of what made them so; "Market Wizards" and his follow-up, "The New Market Wizards." In that follow up book, he wrote this: "Time and time again, those whom I interviewed for this book and its predecessor stressed the absolutely critical role of psychological elements in trading success. When asked to explain what was important to success, the market wizards never talked about indicators or techniques, but rather about such things as discipline, emotional control, patience, and mental attitude toward losing. The message is clear: the key to winning in the markets is internal, not external."

Re-post of March 27, 2012, outlining my method of training to accept losses...

-from March 27, 2012:


For today...

For today, I am going to enter my practice trades as usual. But, I am only going to exit them under two circumstances. 1) Stop loss..... 2) Less than 15 minutes to market close. That's it.
I had a lousy day of execution yesterday. I ended with a $159 gain in sim-trading but that is not the point. I had some good entries but exited early because of failure anxiety, leaving much gain on the table. Then, I entered my last trade of the day and instead of hitting my stop when it went against me, I held the losing trade. Unacceptable.
As mentioned previously many times, I have a fear of loss. I don't like the way failure feels. What a strange irony this is, that losing small with stop-outs is the key to success. After all this time, I still have difficulty getting my head around this concept. Intellectually, it is clear to me but emotionally, I can't deal with it. Fear of failure has driven my life since I was a child. It's hard to reprogram over 45 years of life in a few months. But, I will try and then try again. The one thing I hate worse than failure is quitting.
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If it is failure I fear, then it is failure I will embrace. Mike Tyson said that "Everyone has a plan... 'til they get punched in the mouth." Well, this is where I see how much I can take while working my plan. Two ways to exit, stop outs and end of day. My goal is to put losses up on the board, even if there are obvious spots to exit for nice gains. This isn't about winning trades, it is about a search for and embrace of failure in hopes I can be familiar with and comfortable around it.
I will post the results end of day. Accountability might help my resolve.

Re-post portions of two March 2012 posts describing how comfortable it was to accept losses...

-from March 28, 2012:

"I picked the right time of the day to work with TNA considering my goal to put up losing trades in order to learn to accept losses." 

"Oddly, I felt very much at ease when my goal was not to win, but rather to lose. I can't help but wonder if that feeling is because I may have designed an exercise that really didn't test my fear because there was no expectation of winning when I placed the trade. That's how wierd it felt to have a trade on and not feel anxious about the outcome. It bears repeating: I'm not sure if the test was helpful or not because I am not sure I cared enough about trying to win! I have to continue this exercise for a number of days to see if I have found a way to trade without emotional discomfort or if I have set up a test where lack of concern about the eventual goal of winning trades has been abandoned. All I know is that it was a joy to click the mouse , stop out for small losses and react to it with the same concern as putting on a belt or walking through the frozen foods section at the supermarket."

"Takeaway:
I must continue with this expect-to-lose exercise until I can get my head around the odd (lack of) feelings it generated yesterday. I have to figure out if my lack of concern is a breakthrough as to how to mentally approach live trading or if the absence of anxiety is more about being emotionally removed from the trades I'm placing such that it is only about clicking a mouse and not placing and managing actual risk. I think time will yield the explanation."


-from March 29, 2012:

"Looking at the bright side:

1. I stopped out each trade faithfully which is the whole point of this exercise I am involved in.


2. My stop outs were in areas where my read of trend/momentum change was pretty good. It needs refinement... maybe some patience. I also MUST trade with trend as my first impulse as opposed to trading for reversals. My first two stops of the day would have been avoided had I done this. This is a perenial problem of mine.


Overall, I am happy with today. I am not joyful like yesterday, but I met my goal of exiting only by hitting stops or getting out in the last 15 mins of the session."